We had our home visit tonight. It was very different from our first two–much less formal and not so urgent feeling. The midwife asked what our vision was and I pretty much said, “Well, and then I’ll just have the baby.” We all laughed because isn’t that the truth of it all. You can plan [...]
Motherhood: The Ultimate Slice of Humble Pie. All that I thought I knew has slipped through my fingers these past five and half years. My mother used to say (like I’ve heard many parents say), “You just wait until you have kids of your own–then you’ll see.” I never understood what they meant, because obviously [...]
I have received an amazing amount of clarity in the past week. Letting go of my fears and expectations (and hang ups surrounding this birth) turned out to open an amazing new spectrum of experience. (Rootbeer floats have been my constant feel good companion this pregnancy and eight months later I’ve perfected the craft!) I [...]
Tears & Abundance I’ve shed some major tears in the past 36 hours. I don’t tell you this for pity or condolences (it’s actually quite hard for me to admit), but rather for the sake of authenticity. I know I’m not alone in feeling overwhelmed by life in our fast-paced world, parenting in a new [...]
You Deserve It! Motherhood (parenthood) is loud, messy and constantly asks you to stretch. This can all leave a person feeling crazy, insane and completely stressed out. The spa is quiet, neat and likes to keep you well within your comfort limits. The stress melts off and you begin to feel human again. In fact, [...]
Let us be grateful to people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom. ~Marcel Proust My son Sol is insanely sweet. This past winter he would hike up the stairs in his snow pants and boots asking me to look out my window. I would peek and find [...]
Friends are Friends for a Reason They show up when you need them and if it gets to the point where you are such a mess that you post your meltdown on your blog they show up with big hugs, well wishes and an extra compassionate heart. The extra love is almost worth the stress [...]
Hello everyone. I posted over at Steady Mom today: Learning Flexibility Together. I’d appreciate it if you’d check it out and leave your thoughts. Hope your day is as sunny as ours is today.
As we all know I am not a morning person, but I do put an effort into starting my mornings off right. I had the pleasure of learning (through experiential education of course) that simply putting my shoes on first thing in the morning radically alters my day in productive and feel good ways. This [...]
Interesting. Now let it go. I used to be an attachment parenting, naturally minded mama who homebirthed, used cloth diapers and swore my kid would never use a pacifier (or watch tv-ha!). Now maybe I still do all those things. (Maybe, maybe not?–doesn’t really matter.) But what I’ve learned on my journey into this wild [...]